Healing Your Maternal Lineage: Recognize Your Abundance
As Mother’s Day approaches, I’ve noticed a familiar synchronicity rising in my practice. One client speaks of estrangement from her mother. Another grieves a pregnancy that hasn’t arrived. Another still is grappling with self-worth and money. These threads—of motherhood, femininity, and abundance—seem to be weaving themselves into the center of the collective field.
Of course, it’s not a coincidence.
It never is.
In my own life, I recently felt called to deepen the healing of my maternal lineage—twelve years after my own mother’s passing. With the support of a chamana (a medicine woman, a guide), I opened a new conversation with the women who came before me. And like many of my clients, I was surprised to find that the story wasn’t finished. That my ancestors still had something to say. And that abundance—true abundance—is deeply tied to the maternal line.
Your Mother Is Still Speaking
Whether your mother is alive and close...
Whether you’ve chosen distance to protect your peace...
Whether she has transitioned from this world...
Your maternal lineage is alive in you.
She lives in your cells, in your nervous system, in the inherited beliefs that whisper, “Don’t ask for too much,” or “You have to suffer to be loved.”
She lives in your womb space, your creative energy, your ability to receive—not just life, but money, joy, and pleasure.
And in every generation before her, there are stories: fears, longings, shame, silence, strength.
A Different Kind of Mother Work
Lately, in session, I’ve guided clients through Family Constellation Therapy—an energetic approach to ancestral healing that reveals what lives beneath the surface. It allows us to connect not just with the idea of our mother, but with her energy… and the unseen forces that shaped her, too.
One woman came in with chronic pelvic tension and blocks around money. In her constellation, we found that she was carrying grief that wasn’t hers—a story of loss two generations back, locked into her body like armor.
Another client finally saw her mother’s silence for what it truly was: survival.
In these spaces, we don’t just grieve—we remember. We forgive. And most importantly, we return what was never ours to carry.
Because when we heal the mother line, we reclaim more than peace.
We reclaim our power to create.
Abundance Is Your Birthright
Abundance is not just money. It is the flow of energy, ideas, nourishment, and new life. It is your ability to birth not just children—but visions, businesses, relationships, healing. It is your ability to receive.
And if you feel blocked in your abundance—financially, emotionally, creatively—it is worth asking:
What am I still carrying from my mother’s story? Or my grandmother’s?
What did they believe about having enough? About being enough?
What parts of their pain are still living through me, asking to be released?
This is the sacred invitation of this season.
To recognize that your mother’s story is not the whole of your own.
To sit with the grief, the complexity, and the love.
To bow to the line that gave you life… and to step forward, free.
In closing:
You are not separate from the women who came before you.
But you are allowed to become something new.
And that—that is abundance.
